Whew. Made it. Sort of... There is still a long way to go in terms of healing and getting things back to normal, but the surgery seems to have gone well and the doctor is over 95% confident that he got all of the cancer. It was more aggressive and widespread than even he thought it would be, based on the biopsy and had begun to perforate the capsule of the prostate. Another three months or so and it would have gotten out. As it is, we are going to watch it like a hawk, just to be on the safe side.
Onward and upward.